You Don't Need Perfect Words. You Need the Right Tools.

Evidence-Based Training That Builds Confidence in Grief Support

Have You Ever...

  • Crossed the street to avoid someone who's bereaved because you didn't know what to say?
  • Said "I'm here if you need anything" but felt completely helpless when they actually did?
  • Worried you made things worse by saying the wrong thing at the wrong time?
  • Watched a colleague, student, or client struggle with grief and felt completely out of your depth?

You're not alone. And you don't have to figure this out by yourself.


When someone is grieving, the people around them often want to help but don't know how. Well-meaning phrases like "at least they didn't suffer" or "everything happens for a reason" can leave the bereaved feeling more isolated. Meanwhile, supporters are left feeling anxious, inadequate, and worried about causing harm.

At Grief Guides, we change that. We equip you with the knowledge, language, and practical tools to show up for people during life's most challenging moments, with confidence, empathy, and skill.

What do our students say...

It was an amazing session with so much thought-provoking information. It has certainly given me a deeper understanding of grief. You are both very inspiring and your knowledge exceptional… to have that practical information and guidance was amazing.
Adult Social Care & Health Team, Derbyshire County Council
Thank you for these two sessions, they were so informative, and something I am sure we will all be using in our client work going forwards. Trudie’s delivery was first class, I am a qualified counsellor, but I learnt so much. The content was very thought provoking.
Pathway Counselling Service
The session really was fantastic, I wasn’t too sure what to expect and I’m so happy I decided to join, it was really helpful and thought provoking and fantastically delivered. It’s always so valuable and appreciated learning from someone so knowledgeable and with lived experience.
Community Team, St. Luke’s Hospice

Who Is Grief Training For?

Our training is for anyone who encounters people dealing with loss:

✓ Healthcare professionals and care workers
✓ Teachers, lecturers, and education staff
✓ HR professionals and wellbeing coordinators
✓ Managers and team leaders
✓ Charity and community workers
✓ Counsellors and therapists
✓ Volunteers and support group facilitators
✓ Faith leaders and spiritual care providers
✓ Funeral directors and bereavement service workers
✓ Anyone who wants to be there for friends and family
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You don't need to be a therapist to take our training, and no previous experience is required. If you care about helping people and are willing to learn, this training is for you. 

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We have a clear vision: a world where the majority of people are able to feel psychologically safe when expressing their grief and have unrestricted access to support & resources in their homes, community & workplace.

Grief is a universal human experience. Yet most of us are never taught how to navigate it, either for ourselves or for others.

We believe that grief support shouldn't be the exclusive domain of trained professionals. With the right tools, language, and frameworks, anyone can learn to be a Grief Guide.

We believe that grief doesn't shrink over time; life expands around it. Effective support isn't about rushing people toward "closure" or "moving on." It's about walking alongside them as they learn to carry their grief and rebuild their lives.

We believe that grief support requires both head and heart: evidence-based knowledge combined with genuine empathy, presence, and humility.

We believe that supporters need support too. We build self-care and reflective practice into everything we teach, because we know that compassion fatigue is real and burnout is preventable.

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Practical Tools, Not Just Theory

Three elements make up the Grief Guides concept: 

1. The Grief Map
A pocket-sized, paper-based resource you can carry everywhere. Use it as a guide during conversations to build confidence and provide structure.

2. Self-Learning Modules (Online)
Accessible 24/7, designed for busy schedules. Learn at your own pace with videos, reading materials, reflective activities, and community discussion forums.

3. Live Trainer-Led Sessions (Microsoft Teams)
90-minute interactive sessions with Martin. Ask questions, explore complex scenarios, and connect with other learners.

Take a tour of the innovative Grief Map

Our signature tool is a pocket-sized, paper-based guide that helps you:

Navigate difficult conversations with confidence
Recognise when someone is outside their Window of Tolerance
Know when to listen, when to act, and when to signpost

Learn specific prompts to help people explore their stories:

"What was that like for you?"
"Tell me more about..."
"How does it feel to talk about this?"
"When is that feeling strongest?"

Have conversations about suicidal ideation, with a clear framework.

In this video, you'll get to see what's inside the Grief Map, and how the content has been designed for maximum impact in a pocket-sized resource that can be carried everywhere.
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